The title alone is enough to make you reflect. Why in the world would a woman propose to her boyfriend? Well, because he loves her, of course. Not to mention that we live in a new age, and things that were once tradition (waiting for a man to kneel) are now considered ancient practices preserved in time capsules. If you’re the modern millennial woman, who said you have to wait for her to ask you questions?
If you really love him and want to stand out from the rest, why not be bold and courageous enough to ask your man to marry him? That is, of course, as long as you don’t try to marry him after just a few dates (you don’t want to scare the guy off).
If you’ve been together for a while, and believe that the next step is marriage, then go ahead, make him feel special. He will definitely appreciate it.
Choosing a Ring
The most challenging part of proposing to your man will likely be selecting the perfect ring. Again, stepping away from tradition you want to do something a little different from the traditional dome-shaped yellow gold band and opt to pop for something more modern and up-to-date.
There are many options out there to choose from, incl black gold men’s wedding ring or even something with cut diamonds or gemstones in it. Take some time, browse online jewelry stores, and choose a ring that fits her personality and style.
Once you get the ring, you have to find a nice way to ask him to be the man of your life. Here are some cool ideas:
- Night at Games
If your guy is into sports, this is a great way to ask questions. Not only will he enjoy the time you two share together, but he’ll also enjoy the love of the game. Whether you buy tickets for college or national league, they are sure to love cheering on their favorite team and spending time with their favorite girl.
You can ask questions during halftime or even after the game is over and the stadium is over (assuming you don’t have the funds to buy a venue like Kayne West). If you really want to pull out all the stops, you can tell how big the name appears on the on light Jumbotrons for all to see.
- Recreate Your First Date
If your guy is more of a hopeless romantic, he’ll appreciate you making the day special for him by recreating your first date. Make a reservation, and if possible you can even wear something similar to what you would wear on the first date. As you reminisce about the beginning of your love, you can ask questions.
- Pampering Day
While you may not hear your man talk about needing a day at the spa, men need some TLC too. Instead of spending all that money on a day at the spa, you can make it right in your own home. Set the mood with music, candles, aromatherapy and some relaxing massage oils.
After a long day at the office, get your man to take a shower and then come and be pampered. Give him a good rub to set the mood and when the moment is right, ask him to marry you. If you know how to touch her properly, she is less likely to refuse the offer.
- Weekend holiday
Does your man love to travel? If so, then plan accordingly weekend holiday is a great way to make her smile and ask her to be your life partner. Plan to go somewhere that interests him so you can really have fun. If he wants to rest and relax, an all-inclusive resort would be great.
If he’s the fun and electrifying kind of guy, why not go to Las Vegas? Whenever you’re in the mood, whether it’s over a nice romantic dinner or at the airport before you head back home, let your man know you want him to be yours by asking him questions.
Ditch the traditions and do what feels good in your heart! If you love a guy and want to spend the rest of your life with him, what’s the point of waiting for him to ask questions? Take the bold step and ask him first.
He will not only appreciate the effort you put into planning this special day, but he will also be proud to know that you feel like he is a keeper and went above and beyond to show him.