One of the world’s most exaggerated days, Valentine’s Day, is just around the corner: you can actually smell it. It is a day when people try to show their loved ones how much they appreciate, value, appreciate and adore. This is why you may be somewhere trying to come up with the best ideas that will blow your partner away and not disappoint. Especially if it’s your first Valentine’s Day together.
You remember what they said about first impressions, right? Now he has gone through the trouble of setting a date; You also have to work on your side. You have to perform a stunt that will completely enchant her: a date she will remember in her life. It has to go beyond regular interest. I mean, she wouldn’t be too excited about the roses would she?
So how do you make that date a role model for him?
You’ve heard this for the umpteenth time, but it’s a fact worth emphasizing: men are visual. You may have the best feelings for the guy, but all of that will mean nothing if you show up for a date like you’re sleeping in a ditch. This is why you should take the time to dress up. Grab them to hide all the flaws on your face especially dark circles under the eyes.
I mean, what man wants to be seen with a woman who looks 90 and is sick? Yes? Also, remember to wear a nice dress that she might like. Choose a dress that fits; one that shows just enough skin to keep him guessing but not anything cheesy or obscene.
If he has set a planned date, intend to put some spice into what he has planned. You can interrupt him in the middle of a conversation with a kiss or simply a message of love hidden in his food. If you are brave enough, you can scream for all souls to hear, even the dead how much you love him.
You can also write an original message on a napkin and send it to him on that date. Even better, you can offer to pay the bill. Remember you are trying to make a lasting impression that will make him want to spend the rest of Valentine’s Day with you.
Get him a present
Just like women, men also like to receive gifts to show how valuable they are. Being your girl’s valentine’s day together, you should try to give her a gift that she will cherish. You don’t want to give him flowers that he’ll throw away in three days or chocolate that he’ll munch on in a heartbeat. Pick something manly, maybe something that’s been on his wish list for a while.
You can give him a trendy watch, play station, iPod, or whatever you know he’ll like. You can even ask for directions several days in advance. A thoughtful gift will make him feel that he is grooving with a girl who cares about him and is also one who is ready to love back and not one who is there with arms wide open just to receive.
Make time for him
If he happens to ask you out on Valentine’s Day, at the very least, give him some attention. Try not to keep him waiting and for God’s sake, listen to him. This date is not the time for you to keep running to the restroom to make sure your makeup stays intact and is yours facial wrinkles not visible.
You should make sure that you are tidy before you leave the house; turn off your phone and make the moment about the two of you. And no, you shouldn’t keep telling your boyfriend about your progress over text messages. Your mind, body and soul need to be totally engrossed in this moment.
If this Valentine’s Day is your first with your man, you have to put your best foot forward and impress him greatly. You shouldn’t just sit there and expect him to be a real gentleman and treat you.
You also have to pamper him. After all, love is supposed to be two-way. Therefore, you better step aside and show him that you are the woman he has been longing for. If you incorporate some of the ideas discussed above, you will be able to give him a day he will never forget. Make it a day when someone will feel too important and loved.