So here we are… The world has one celebration of Love and we have to wait 364 days before we show our loved ones how much we care. Somehow, there’s something uncomfortable, to me, with this image. For those who feel Love is everything, every day should be a way to celebrate Love with joy and fulfillment. Investing one day of the year in the greatness of sharing, is not showing love, it is hardly showing off. Love is an endless flow that never fails to convey its goodness.
Indeed, Love does nothing else. It gives only good or greatness. How to stay in the flow is the most challenging part of Life. Here is a list of 5 ways to keep your Love steady and passionate.
Think divine, not romantic
Romantic love can only last for a short time unless it is governed and fueled by a deeper and more rooted love. Divine Love is eternal and present everywhere. When we connect our connection with our sacred self-consciousness, we strengthen it through the divine aspect it vibrates. We enter it with a quality that continually renews relationships, refreshes them, and expands them. Look for deeper truths within yourself so you develop deeper strength in your relationships.
Think soft, not hard
The need for a day of loud celebration of Love comes from a lack of awareness about it all, which is made of subtle moments. Love is subtle and indeed, much of its power is unrecognized, hidden, and very often disguised. It takes a lot of mindfulness to appreciate the subtleties of love that soothe us, every day. When a smile or silence can become a moment that says: “I love you”, then the subtle has intruded into life in moments and the need to celebrate is transformed into a desire to honor Love every day with a little care and small gestures.
Think creatively, not boring
Because Love renews Life, and Life follows Love, it is important for anyone who wants to continue to feel Love, to think creatively. Whenever boredom enters our lives, we must recognize it as a space of possibility for renewal and new possibilities. Surprise moments are not made of things that are known and have been experienced. Lovers must be willing to search within themselves for ways to share their love in new forms and visions. Oftentimes, a small thought and a kind word is more than enough to share Love and fuel a fire.
Think attitude, not bondage
Without a doubt, Love is a master. Although we must make ourselves the servants of it, we must not make ourselves the servants of the illusion. Serving Love is respecting ourselves so that we can respect everyone. It is a way of life that transcends humanity’s petty need to be loved. It is an experience that reminds humanity of its nature. The illusion of separation, need, and co-dependency shared in superficiality and shallow relationships eliminates the possibility of “forever.” Let’s experience the love that embodies respect, compassion, and understanding, and let’s let go of our need for need.
Think of gifts yourself before gifts of goods
Love brings a constant sense of satisfaction not because of the things it brings, but rather because of the memories it collects. Love is the energy whose vessel is represented by our human experience. When we share love with our humanity, we fill humanity with Love. When we give something for love, we invest our love in something. While things can, sometimes, have a certain value, self-giving is priceless. Remember to always think about the gift yourself before the item gift.
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