The journey to a woman’s heart is not an easy journey. It’s often a convoluted passage full of mazes and puzzles that can test all your skills at a level that can stagger even the most skilled man. Despite its complexity, it is not an impossible task and through effort and the right practice one can fulfill this seemingly difficult task. So, to help you woo the girl next door and develop some general skills for impressing a girl, we’ve come up with 11 tips you can follow to impress a girl for love.
Open But Not Invasive
Girls tend to be naturally intuitive. They are quite good at observing, guessing, and finding out. Therefore maintain a certain level of accessibility and openness to prevent suspicion. Be the kind of guy who can feed her curiosity, but at the same time, make sure you maintain the mystery to keep her interested. After all, no girl wants to fall in love with someone confused in love. Keep the mystery going, but there’s one fine difference between looking curious and smart or being completely crazy.
This is in line with the previous point. Never put on a fake persona because he will likely see it within minutes. Girls tend to prefer guys who are straightforward and clear about what’s on their minds. Be honest and you will quickly realize that you have joined the list of people who can be trusted.
Confident Yet Humble
Girls like guys who can control and manage their lives. This means having the ability to understand their own goals and strive to achieve them. But make sure you slowly don’t stop portraying the ‘know-it-all’ image of yourself. You might instead create an arrogant image of yourself that will definitely not leave a lasting impression on his mind.
Don’t Give Up Soon
Just because you want to impress her doesn’t mean you completely subscribe to her ideas and ideology. Maintain your own individuality by sharing your opinion, which you can politely share with him. You may end up admitting to his point, to prevent hurting him, but at least you’re saying what you think. Women like men who can be independent thinkers rather than nodding heads.
Maintain Sufficient Distance
Just because you’re best friends doesn’t mean you now have permission to stalk him wherever he goes. Maintain an appropriate distance from him, enough to have a good stable relationship but not so invasive that he actually freaks out.
Be Funny, Not Ridiculous
Every girl in love expects a decent sense of humor from her husband. Having a lighter side is quite important as it helps keep the fire going in the relationship. But at the same time make sure you don’t overdo it. Take him out, watch some romantic movie together, go for a walk and make him laugh out loud. But always make sure you acknowledge the situation and her feelings before getting funny, otherwise she’ll start to think you have a silly guy who can’t get enough of his silly jokes.
Talk About Interests
This means sharing your likes and dislikes and making a real effort to learn about them. This is a great way to show her that you are genuinely interested in understanding her from the inside out. But make sure at the same time you don’t interrogate him and keep things more towards the mundane side of the scale.
That doesn’t mean wearing a tuxedo every time you go to an outdoor dinner, it just means looking like someone who seems to be making the minimum effort to stay neat and clean. Women, in fact, don’t even mind men who like to dress rough or are metro-sexual as long as they don’t neglect basic grooming and stay in shape.
Be Open To Talking About Family
Most men completely avoid discussions related to family. While it may seem uncomfortable to share nuances about family, don’t forget that if you do, he’ll reply back with probably twice as much information. This is because girls have a natural tendency to speak up and talk about family matters. Therefore, letting him into your personal zone will go a long way toward making him feel more comfortable and more connected to you.
Don’t Talk Bad About His Family
While it’s fine to give opinions and share points of view, it’s definitely a no-go when it comes to the girl’s family. Passing on a nasty joke or an insensitive comment about his family is a surefire recipe for making him say goodbye to you. The general best thing to do is if you don’t have anything nice to say then just avoid talking about it altogether.
Do not rush
Taking things slow is the motto for girls. Yes, he is attractive but if all you do when you meet him is express your wild fantasies then your relationship is bound to hit a dead end soon. Guys who rush right away come off as the scary, desperate types with whom no girl is interested in being in a long term relationship. Instead focus on understanding the person from within.
The more effort you put into finding her inner beauty, the more you will learn to respect and admire her. And who knows, once he realizes this, he might return the same and even start to adore you a lot.