It may be your daughter’s wedding, but it’s also a happy day for you! You will walk the aisles and sit in the front row, dancing with the crowd and mingling with all those who share your joy. Therefore, you need a dress that fits this important day.
We did some research and put together some guidelines that you should consider when buying your dress. This is an important shopping trip, so take it easy and consider these guidelines:
1. Choose Your First View
You have to shop for your look, and that too before the groom’s mother. Yes, you can shop together for a bonding experience. But if you are more free spirit.
2.Dress Length
If you decide to shop separately, make sure your dress is the right length. Yes, the rule of thumb is that both mothers wear dresses of the same length. Length dictates formality, and it will help you look better in wedding photos. So you should consider it!
3. Coordinate with the Maid or Flower Girl
Even though the length of the dress is the same as the mother of the groom, you are also required to coordinate with the bridesmaid or flower girl. If possible, bring swatches of the bridesmaid or Flower Girl Dress.
Make sure the color of your dress complements the bridesmaids or flower girls. If you want to match one of them, you will have to coordinate with the designer or brand that will accommodate you.
4. Try a Specialty Shop
It is common for mothers to shop for dresses at department stores. But these aren’t just dresses; that’s the dress you’ll wear to your daughter’s wedding! So you should consider a bridal shop. Visit a specialty shop for a personalized experience and get the attention you deserve.
5. Pay attention to the price
Just because you went to a specialty store doesn’t mean you have to break your bank. You can still take the affordable route. Mother of the Bride Dresses is an essential purchase, but it doesn’t need to be as expensive as a wedding dress.
Who says affordable isn’t fashionable? Several brands and designers will offer you the best designs at great prices. You need to do some research.
6. Pay Attention to Your Comfort
There are lots of options to choose from, so don’t buy anything uncomfortable. Your daughter’s wedding is going to be a long, tiring day. An uncomfortable dress can ruin the day. So try on the dress a few months before the big day and make sure you can move your arms, bend over and sit up without a problem.
Remember, you will always regret choosing fashion over comfort. You have the right to look comfortable and beautiful. That way, you don’t have to go crazy with accessories and jewelry. So, you better go easy on the bling.
7. Keep in Touch with Your Daughter
This may be your dress, but it’s your daughter’s big day. So it’s best to involve her in the shopping process and get her opinion on what to buy and when. It will be a great bonding experience when you get your hands on the winning dress.
The same rule applies to the groom’s mother, feel free to ask your son to go with you!